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Sunday, 21 October 2012

Friends for life



When you hear of friendship, what would you describe it as? Is it having a friend who always has your back? Is a friend who will be there with you trough your life? Is it a friend who'll never let you down? Or is it someone who will spread lies about you to the people whom you care about and trust? The answer is simple, friendship is having a friend who points out your flaws but loves you for them.
I guess everyone has a friend in their life and everyone knows what is feeling to have a friend in your life. A buddy to share things with, tell stupid things that you can’t tell others. The one whom you can trust blind folded. Friends in our life are like stars, you don’t always see them but somewhere in your heart you know that they are there. Everyone hears what you have to say but friends know what you have to say and they understand and listen to what you don’t say. Friendship is a feeling of love and affection of one person for another. This feeling of love must be reciprocated. Otherwise friendship cannot be possible. Friendship does not exist where tastes, feelings and sentiments are not similar.
Friendship is the feeling or relationship that friends have. A real friend is one who stands by his friend in his hour of need. A friend is a part and parcel of one's life. Man lives in a society. He cannot live without family and friends. A friend is a part and parcel of one's life. One can talk to one's friend with as much confidence as to one's own self. When one feels alone and finds it difficult to deal with a situation on one's won, one can seek the help of friends. A friend strengthens one's self confidence in times of need. He acts as a shield when one is faced with difficulties. A good friend can be called as a second self.
 Friendship is the feeling or relationship that friends have. A real friend is one who stands by his friend in his hour of need. A friend is a part and parcel of one's life. Man lives in a society. He cannot live without family and friends. A friend is a part and parcel of one's life. One can talk to one's friend with as much confidence as to one's own self. When one feels alone and finds it difficult to deal with a situation a friend strengthens one's self confidence in times of need. He acts as a shield when one is faced with difficulties. A good friend can be called as a second self. It is easy to make friends. But, it is difficult to maintain it during all the stages of one's life. One cannot enjoy true and permanent friendship if one does not value it. One should have some spare time for one's friend. This friendship becomes close and lasts long. It is also seen that people, come close to one another due to some circumstances, call themselves friends but forget one another as soon as circumstances take them afar.
 
Money is an enemy of friendship. Everybody has an attraction for money. When lending or borrowing of money is done between two friends, there is great risk. Friendship may be affected. So it is wise for true friends to avoid monetary transaction. Vanity is another element which breaks friendship. Everybody has self-respect. When a person tries to criticize his friend, their friendship is affected. So friendship must be treated very delicately.
Support of a friend is one of the most important things that a friendship can offer. Letting a buddy know that one is behind them in whatever they do and that one will support them in the decision they make is a good foundation for friendship. Even though one might not make the same choices that their friend does, they will still support whatever decision their friend makes

Friendship has no boundaries of age, time, place or relations. Practically, friendship is made between persons of similar age group. But even a brother, a sister, a husband, a father or a mother can become good friend. Life is full of uncertainties. The steady affection of a friend is great support in one's life. A friend reduces one's misery and suffering by his sympathy and help. He can increase the intensity of one's joy by sharing it. Misunderstanding should never be allowed to come in the way of friendship. Friends should stand by each other through thick and thin. A true friend is the extension of one's own self. He is the enrichment of one's being.

That’s what life with a friend because life changes but friends don't.

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